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As the count of child molestation and abuse takes it's toll on the daily basis, saving your child from this menace becomes more urgent. A child's retention is very amazing and a reason why it should be seized to tell him/her signs to run away from and also a wake up call for parents and guardians. This post is going to be on sharing with us how to keep your child away from this evil. There are duties on your part and also duties on the part of the child because you might not be everywhere with them. Briefly, i will talk about these Find out whether sex offenders live in your neighborhood: There are streets that are known to be dominated by notorious people and this is because these offenders work in a network. Before moving into that new place, one of the things you should find out is if that area is known for any notoriety or has any trend of sexual abuse.  Get involved in your child's life: It is true that we are in a busy world and the world will only get...

Hello friends....how did the weekend go? Mine was fine. Had not a single place to go to. Maybe somewhat boring. Sorry I had nothing up here through out. It was due to one thing or the other. So thanks to God it's a new week and a new slate to begin on. One of the things I'll be bringing before us today is the issue of sexual harassment. Sexual harassment is defined as unwelcomed sexual advances, request for favour and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature when submission is a condition affecting academic or employment decisions. We can then say that sexual harrasment can come from a superior to the subordinate like in teacher to student, master to slave. Subordinates are often times being thrown into this dilemma by their superiors and its even more so because they are going to be at the lossing side. Owing to this, superiors hold these subordinates to victimize them or keep them at ransom because they really have no much choice. Before us today i...

Hello everyone.. OK today we'll be doing something a little bit different. Have you heard about 'sex talk' (sex education) .. I'm sure you have. Sex education is about enlightening and telling someone especially a child about sex. For some reasons some parents believe its wiser not to even mention the word to a child. And also for some reasons some parents think it's wiser to talk about it with the child. I have drafted out a form to know our different views to this so that we'll build up conversation from there.  Please fill the form below. I hope to hear from you...yes you..you. Thank you. Follow this link below to fill the form. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1luzBh9_amEZCYCqudUgX8dDJ4lOr8QkatkVTYjslb0Y/edit?usp=drivesdk&chromeless=1

A pedophile is someone who sexually abuses children and is sexually attracted to children. Another term for this word is "child molester" "Pedo" is a Greek word which means "child" "Phile" is a derivative word from Greek, Latin, and French. In the  previous post I promised to talk about how to know a pedophile and I am redeeming it right away. This blog post is going to show us how to easily identify a pedophile because actually it is not tagged on the face. Neither can you pin-point from facial look. This children is not to make you judge or conclude or tag all children lovers and friendlies as pedophiles. For wrong accusation leads to depression and social disorder. This  post is for you to be observant because this predators are not far from us. A vast percentage of pedophiles are people close to the victim and the victim's family. Usually a family friend, relative, grandpa, nanny, babysitter, teacher, coach, etc. Pedophile usuall...

Often times parents or guardians fail to notice their child or ward are being abused not because they never saw the act being carried out but because they do not really know what child sexual abuse really means and so don't clearly know the forms it can come in. Child abuse is not only a physical contact between the perpetrator and your child. It also includes any sexual conduct that is harmful to a child's mental, emotional, or physical welfare. Some times these parents or guardians notice this being done to their children but they never see it as a child sexual abuse. They instead mistake it for an 'expensive joke'. So today I'm going to be pointing out to us those activities we fail to really reprimand against and call it sexual abuse. This is going to guide us to what we let our children get exposed to and the people we leave around them and with them. Most child sexual abuse are perpetrated by people the victim knows. Could be an uncle,an aunty,a nanny,a...

OK I've been postponing doing my first video but I finally did it today Please help me go watch and like my welcome video. The channel is going to be about giving hope to the downtrodden, sexual abuse survivors,depressed, addicts and other low we estates. Its to give them help,healing ams hope. And please subscribe. God bless you. https://youtu.be/bTDu1p0p2es

Today, our WCW (woman crush wednesday) goes to Mrs. Bola Tinubu, a child advocate, mother and lawyer, and founder of The Cece Yara Foundation. A foundation with the mission to strengthen child protection and prevent child sexual abuse in Nigeria. Motivated by her belief that childhood should be a period of innocence, safety and joy for ALL children, she took the step to establish The Cece Yara Foundation when research reports estimated childhood sexual violence occurrence in Nigeria to be as high as one in four girls and one in ten boys. Through “The Cece Yara Foundation” and collaboration with key institutions, Bola Tinubu has taken up the fight to preserve the joyfulness of an innocent childhood. The phrase 'Cece Yara' means 'Save The Child' Today, sussysblog celebrates Mrs Bola Tinubu #wcw😍 #womancrushwednesday #bolatinubu #ceceyara #sussysblog #sexualabusesurvivors You can drop a word of encouragement and acknowledgment for Mrs Bola Tinubu in the comment...

My name is Benda. I was physically abused by my boyfriend. It used to be really hard for me to talk about my past relationship. I always felt really embarrassed and some times sad. When I talk about being physically and more so mentally abused by my ex-boyfriend, people always seem to feel uncomfortable or even nervous. I sometimes get the feeling that they expect me to be ashamed of the situation. Even if that's what they wanted, me to feel shame, I wouldn't. This is how it happened.  It was the first time things got physically violent. We were laying in his bed and the lights were off. We were having an actual argument but were dealing with it in a flirtatious sort of a fight. He said something to me and I hit him. I meant to hit him softly but I couldn't see anything since the lights were off and he was closer than I thought. I hit him really hard in the head and it sounded like it hurt. It sounded like it hurt bad I hit him, gasp and immediately apologize. The ne...

Knowing the right one for you and working it out is one very dillematic condition. But having someone who has been there tell you how it goes and works is really an escape. It has been a 31 year journey of purpose, resolution and commitment for these two, Mr and Mrs Amoka. To mark their 31st marriage anniversary, they took to a little interview, to share their journey experience and testimony.  For the singles this is going to be a guide, for young couples this is going to be a checklist. Why not we have a thrill. So here we go! Who made the first move when it all started and how was the initial response? Mr Amoka:  I made the first move. She said she’d pray about it and I had to keep following up, asking how far? What was the key quality you looked out for when choosing a spouse, and what would you advice young people to look out for in their search? Mr Amoka : For me, it was spirituality. I looked out for a true believer who was clearly committed to God and His work....