Know A Pedophile; The Signs

A pedophile is someone who sexually abuses children and is sexually attracted to children. Another term for this word is "child molester"
"Pedo" is a Greek word which means "child"
"Phile" is a derivative word from Greek, Latin, and French.
In the  previous post I promised to talk about how to know a pedophile and I am redeeming it right away.
This blog post is going to show us how to easily identify a pedophile because actually it is not tagged on the face. Neither can you pin-point from facial look.
This children is not to make you judge or conclude or tag all children lovers and friendlies as pedophiles. For wrong accusation leads to depression and social disorder. This  post is for you to be observant because this predators are not far from us.
A vast percentage of pedophiles are people close to the victim and the victim's family. Usually a family friend, relative, grandpa, nanny, babysitter, teacher, coach, etc.
Pedophile usually work to gain the trust of the parents before they begin their plan and maintain this trust as it goes. This trust makes any evil perpetrated almost go unsuspected
Here are few signs to look out for in a pedophile (characteristics)

1. Mostly an adult person: A pedophile is most times an adult.
2. Usually married: Ironically enough, this has been proven by so many resaeches. 
3. Usually a very private person: A pedophile is usually very calm and reserved making him unsuspected. He is always on his own because he does not want anyone coming to find out what he does.
4. May seek employment or volunteer at a child service program: Because they have a sexual graving for children, they get themselves in groups where they areore accessible to children. People around this might see this as a gesture but he knows what he is actually getting at
5. He or she always wants to have pictures of children: Be wary of people like this. They usually use this to satisfy themselves when the need comes or they use it to plan on what to so in abusing this child
6. Talks about children in the same way one would talk about a lover: Because he is sexually attracted to children he talks about children as if he was talking about his lover.
7. Often seeks to join organisations that support his sexual belief and practices. They have online groups which make them form a community wherever they find themselves.
8. Usually a non-violent person and has few problems with the law: He is that kind of person who is seen to be law  abiding and a respected member of the society.
9. A pedophile needs validation from children: They are drawn to children and so they seek for validation from them. They behave immature.
10. A pedophile always buys toys for children. Uses this to lure them and then blackmail them with it later on.
11. Has cold rapport with other adults except for a fellow pedophile
12. A pedophile gives more attention to girls than to women. 
13. When a child is to be consoled, a pedophile would always make the child sit on his lap and also hold on to hugs longer than necessary.
14. Most times they are either homosexuals or heterosexuals.
15. They are loners and so are Internet addicts: They find solace in the internet because they barely have Friends and on the internet they communicate with your child and even plan on how to meet.
16. Pedophiles were once victims of child molestation: Because its a chain reaction, child molestation depresses a child and he never grows out of this depression. He finds escape in doing it to another child.

People who exhibit this characters are likely to be pedophiles but that does not mean all who are children friendly are pedophiles. This calls for deep observation of two or three of this attributes in the life of adults you leave with your children.
If you notice this, be fast enough to take your child as far from him as possible!

We hope this post was helpful to you.
Subsequently we'll be talking about how to get your child trust you enough to open up to you on sexual abuse or just an advancement of it. We'd also bring to you how about online safety for your child as it relates to sexual abuse.

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